ON a recent visit to the Wagah-Attari border, I found myself standing shoulder to shoulder with families, their eyes shining with pride as they watched the Beating Retreat ceremony. However, in the middle of all the cheers and excitement, I was struck by a persistent question: does this age-old spectacle of military bravado truly reflect the hopes of a generation yearning for peace? The energetic display of military discipline, highlighted by high kicks and starched uniforms, symbolises a rivalry shaped by historical events. However, as we traverse through a world progressively shaped by global interconnectivity and the urgency of social change, it seems growingly irrational to continue with such an aggressive spectacle. In a world where diplomacy and dialogue are indispensable for progress, the ceremony represents a sharp divergence from the spirit of cooperation that is critical for addressing shared challenges — be it climate change, poverty or public health. Although the ceremony may attract tourists and stir emotions of national pride, it also reinforces a narrative of hostility that hinders mutual understanding and respect between Pakistan and India. Why do we not examine the potential gains from redirecting the energy and resources invested in the ceremony towards initiatives that promote collaboration? For instance, joint cultural festivals celebrating shared heritage, sports exchanges, or educational partnerships could provide platforms for dialogue and connection. These initiatives would notably strengthen ties and actively promote a more constructive narrative of cooperation over competition. Highlighting shared values and experiences instead of our differences can cultivate a culture of empathy and understanding between the two nations. The ceremony may convey a convoluted relationship, but it is time to reconsider its place in the contemporary world. Policymakers, leaders and people on both sides of the border should advocate for change, and explore opportunities that may lead to a more peaceful and prosperous future for both societies.